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</html><description>1. I&#x2019;m writing this from my parent&#x2019;s home (the wood of the dining table is a dead giveaway of how aesthetics have shifted between generations) and no matter how old I get, I always resume the role of Child the moment I see them. My dad picked me up from the airport with a takeout container of dinner for the drive back from Newark Airport (as he always does), reminding me to chew the savory sticky rice slowly as if I was still five, impatient, starved. (I&#x2019;m still the last two, though.) Also freshly prepared was homemade soy milk in a thermos&#x2014;still steaming hot&#x2014;to help wash the meal down and soothe my post-flight tummy. I&#x2019;m the luckiest girl in the world. Everything I have now is because of my parents&#x2019; love and sacrifices. 2. This year I decided that on the first of every month, I would read an entry out of Ana&#xEF;s Nin&#x2019;s diary. Our lives are nearly a century apart, and yet&#x2014;I can&#x2019;t help but find (or want,&#xA0;hope, to find) similarities between the lines. Her epiphanies are shared, her aphoristic realizations also in tandem with mine. I know; I&#x2019;m projecting. But isn&#x2019;t that the magic of books? I&hellip;</description><thumbnail_url>https://kimberlypearl.co/blog/wp-content/uploads/2022/04/anais-nin-diary-volume-11-april-1935.jpg</thumbnail_url></oembed>
