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</html><description>I&#x2019;ve always been drawn to the color red. It may have been instinctual&#x2014;red is the first color humans recognize after black and white&#x2014;or the product of conditioning; after I first discovered horoscopes and learned that Aries were fiery, singular spirits emboldened carnelian (our birthstone), I suddenly wanted (or felt compelled to?) have red surround me. I loved the gilded red envelopes handed to me on Chinese New Year (I cared more about these thin packets than the carefully folded bills inside, a sign of a stationery hoarder), and found magic in the firecrackers hung outside temples in Keelung. Red in chili peppers were vibrant signs of a good meal to come. A rouge, cloth-bounded hardback? A delicious read, no doubt. Somewhere along the way, though, red became too bold&#x2014;too Chinese&#x2014;for me to love. Blue (which I&#x2019;m still drawn to, to be clear) felt more modern, American, cool, acceptable. Black was easy. Safe. Rejecting red was the simplest way to draw a clear line between my identity and self: a first of many visual proclamations that I was different from&#xA0;them.&#xA0;Pick me. But red is conflict and power; struggle and passion; love, luck, and an acute hypersensitivity to the world around it.&hellip;</description><thumbnail_url>https://kimberlypearl.co/blog/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/lunar-new-year-red-vogue-feb-2022-hoyeon-jung-cover.jpg</thumbnail_url></oembed>
