{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Soft Sensibilities","provider_url":"https:\/\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog","author_name":"Kimberly","author_url":"https:\/\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/author\/kimberlypearl-92gmail-com\/","title":"How to Get Out of a Bad Date &#8226; Soft Sensibilities","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"4cXjFUCze1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/how-to-get-out-of-bad-date\/\">How to Get Out of a Bad Date<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/how-to-get-out-of-bad-date\/embed\/#?secret=4cXjFUCze1\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;How to Get Out of a Bad Date&#8221; &#8212; Soft Sensibilities\" data-secret=\"4cXjFUCze1\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/\/# sourceURL=https:\/\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/wp-includes\/js\/wp-embed.min.js\n\/* ]]> *\/\n<\/script>\n","description":"Babes! It&#8217;s your favorite baby blogger (as in: sporadic, small-town e-writer; not the genre) reporting with life hacks to get you through\u2014and more importantly,\u00a0out of\u2014a bad date. I almost baby barfed (I don&#8217;t have baby fever&#8230;or do I? Biology&#8217;s a-callin&#8217;!) at just how millennial I sound. Hacks? How-tos?\u00a0Elite Daily-style reporting? I&#8217;m throwing the towel in. Cosmo as it may be, I&#8217;m writing this for my recently single girlfriends\u2014especially the brave ones venturing\u00a0into the world of online\u00a0and app\u00a0dating. I&#8217;ve heard the pros: You&#8217;ve got more control over who you get in touch with, and your access to singles\u00a0is\u00a0seemingly infinite. More options, more dates, greater chance of finding The One. All good, right? That is, until you find yourself stuck on a few too many mediocre or just-plain-horrible dates. Here&#8217;s how to avoid them\u2014and get out of\u00a0bad dates, too: Don&#8217;t say &#8216;yes&#8217; just to say &#8216;yes.&#8217; Just because someone asks you out doesn&#8217;t mean you&#8217;re obligated agree to it. Your time and energy are finite, and thus should be valued as invaluable. Ask yourself why\u00a0you want to be dating: are you looking for a hookup, or are you in want of a relationship? Clearly defining the what\u2014and more importantly, the\u00a0why\u2014will help you&hellip;","thumbnail_url":"http:\/\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/Calvin-KleinWhite-Label-Spring-Summer-2016-Campaign-mycalvins.jpg"}