{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Soft Sensibilities","provider_url":"https:\/\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog","author_name":"Kimberly","author_url":"https:\/\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/author\/kimberlypearl-92gmail-com\/","title":"What to Wear: The First Date &#8226; Soft Sensibilities","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"ERN6rsnJWt\"><a href=\"https:\/\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/the-first-date\/\">What to Wear: The First Date<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/the-first-date\/embed\/#?secret=ERN6rsnJWt\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;What to Wear: The First Date&#8221; &#8212; Soft Sensibilities\" data-secret=\"ERN6rsnJWt\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/\/# sourceURL=https:\/\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/wp-includes\/js\/wp-embed.min.js\n\/* ]]> *\/\n<\/script>\n","description":"I received an e-mail from one of my lovely readers, Helen: Hello, my beloved La Couturier,\u00a0Excuse my English, because I&#8217;m not a native speaker and it&#8217;s not perfect. But soddenly it came to my mind that I can address my question to you. So. I can always find what to put on to some parrty, but it&#8217;s always a huge problem for me to pick up an appropriate oufit for the date &#8211; especially the first one! How to be seductive, but not vulgar? Is there any universal option? Please give me an advice! However if you are not interested, I can understand and I will go on readin&#8217; your blog anyway!!! P.S. I just adore it! You are doin&#8217; a great job and keep goin&#8217;!!!\u00a0From Ukraine with love, Helen. Helen, darling, you are too sweet. And of course I will answer your question! First dates do always cause the most fretting, hair-pulling, and panicking for most girls. It&#8217;s quite the problematic situation with the nerves &#8211; so dressing to feel your best can help with remaining confident (the boy&#8217;s already yours, hon!) even through those slightly awkward moments. Wear something that you love. And of course, we ladies always&hellip;","thumbnail_url":"http:\/\/lacouturiernyc.files.wordpress.com\/2009\/01\/teen-vogue-my-funny-valentine-3.jpg"}