{"id":11296,"date":"2016-07-20T23:34:21","date_gmt":"2016-07-21T03:34:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/?p=11296"},"modified":"2016-07-20T23:34:21","modified_gmt":"2016-07-21T03:34:21","slug":"look-up","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/look-up\/","title":{"rendered":"Look Up, Darling"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/IMG_8874.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"11297\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/look-up\/img_8874\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/IMG_8874.jpg?fit=2842%2C2133&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"2842,2133\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"grand central station nyc\" data-image-description=\"&lt;p&gt;grand central station nyc&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/IMG_8874.jpg?fit=840%2C631&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-11297\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/IMG_8874.jpg?resize=840%2C630\" alt=\"grand central station nyc\" width=\"840\" height=\"630\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/IMG_8874.jpg?w=2842&amp;ssl=1 2842w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/IMG_8874.jpg?resize=300%2C225&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/IMG_8874.jpg?resize=768%2C576&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/IMG_8874.jpg?resize=1024%2C769&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/IMG_8874.jpg?resize=1680%2C1261&amp;ssl=1 1680w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/07\/IMG_8874.jpg?w=2520&amp;ssl=1 2520w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 840px) 100vw, 840px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Things aren&#8217;t going so well in my corner of the universe. I&#8217;m not fitting into my clothes the way I&#8217;d like to; I&#8217;m stressed about everything; and I have less than 10 days to get into the best shape of my life (which isn&#8217;t happening, I&#8217;ve come to terms with). Trivial things, maybe, but we&#8217;re not gonna get too deep here just yet. You and I, we&#8217;re acquaintances.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Maybe one day I&#8217;ll let you in.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">It&#8217;s hard to see the good when you&#8217;re stuck.\u00a0It&#8217;s hard to get back on your feet, too. But the world can be good if you let it: hate seems to be everywhere, but you&#8217;re reminded otherwise\u00a0when a friend reaches out as if she knew you needed someone to talk to. Or, a stranger tells you,\u00a0<em>hey, you dance beautifully<\/em>, and for a moment you&#8217;re relieved of self-doubt and self-criticism. Then, there&#8217;s the supposed\u00a0<em>lazy intern<\/em> who wrote Melania Trump&#8217;s speech, who just might be\u00a0a genius shedding light (<em>i.e.<\/em>: bringing down) the Trump campaign, one plagiarized speech at a time.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">The world can be cruel.\u00a0But if you look up, you&#8217;ll see a Pok\u00e9mon. (I&#8217;m kidding. Don&#8217;t walk and catch &#8217;em all.)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Look up, darling, and you&#8217;ll see the magnificence that is Grand Central Station. I mean,\u00a0<em>humans<\/em> built this <em>train station<\/em> in the imagery of some Old World grandeur for other, <em>normal<\/em> humans. Or, you&#8217;ll see the moon: big, white, round,\u00a0<em>golden<\/em>. So bright your mom calls for you to\u00a0<em>look out the window!<\/em> because she knows you&#8217;ve had a love affair with the night sky since you learned to read.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Look up, darling, and you&#8217;ll see the faces of the people who love you. You&#8217;ll see the smiles of those who adore you, you&#8217;ll hear the praises of people who admire you. Look up, and you&#8217;ll see that though your body may look like it&#8217;s changing, you realize you&#8217;ve gotten stronger. There are people who support you (including your Dad, who only just realized that\u00a0&#8220;organic&#8221; and &#8220;vegan&#8221; don&#8217;t mean the same thing, and is now looking for a\u00e7ai drinks at Costco) and continue to <a href=\"http:\/\/bit.ly\/GFranco16\">vote for you day after day<\/a>. 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