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I\u2019ve seen so many women\u2014of all ages, young to the mature\u2014who have always held such strong convictions about their independence and the future they wanted, and suddenly drop everything for someone they love.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">It\u2019s a bit sad to watch their individuality fade in the process; a man (or woman), is not worth letting go of everything you\u2019ve worked so hard for. Yes, love calls for sacrifices, but unconditional compassion is\u00a0<strong>not<\/strong> synonymous to losing your\u00a0<em>self<\/em>. Your being.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Never<\/strong> forsake your potential in pursuit of love.\u00a0<strong>Be the woman who leads, learns, and loves<\/strong>. Multi-tasking,\u00a0<em>mes ch\u00e9ries<\/em>, is entirely possible.<\/p>\n<p align=\"center\">. \u00a0 . \u00a0 .<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p align=\"right\">x<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\" align=\"right\"><span style=\"color: #999999;\"><em>{image <a style=\"color: #999999;\" href=\"http:\/\/tumblr.com\" target=\"_blank\">via<\/a>}<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cSome women choose to follow men, and some women choose to follow their dreams. If you\u2019re wondering which way to go, remember that your career will never wake up in the morning and tell you that it doesn\u2019t love you anymore.\u201d Just remember. Clich\u00e9 as it may be to say, it\u2019s necessary to re-instill the thought in your head every so often. 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