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In times when the economy is doing rather badly, and shopping addictions must be tamed, and even window shopping makes the shopper feel a bit guilt-ridden, there is only one thing to do: shopping for others. It’s much like being a personal stylist and getting the satisfaction of creating the perfect ensemble, without the guilt that comes with actually spending money on yet another (fill in the blank<\/span>).<\/p>\n

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