{"id":443,"date":"2008-11-23T14:05:26","date_gmt":"2008-11-23T18:05:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lacouturiernyc.wordpress.com\/?p=443"},"modified":"2017-08-13T21:20:21","modified_gmt":"2017-08-14T01:20:21","slug":"why-dont-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/why-dont-you\/","title":{"rendered":"Why Don&#8217;t You&#8230;?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Diana Vreeland, editor of <em>Harper&#8217;s Bazaar <\/em>and later the editor-in-chief of American <em>Vogue<\/em>, though as fabulous &amp; legendary as she was, had to begin\u00a0 modestly. The start of her career first began\u00a0as\u00a0a\u00a0writer for <em>Bazaar\u00a0 <\/em>(we all wish our modest beginnings could start there&#8230;), where she wrote her much renowned column titled &#8220;<em>Why Don&#8217;t You<\/em>&#8220;. There, she established her own position and perspective of fashion and the lifestyle of women: there was no need to lead a boring, un-fabulous life. Rather, the world of fashion was interesting &amp; meant to be explored. As was life. Thus, she would ask, &#8220;Why don&#8217;t you own twelve diamond roses of all sizes?&#8221;, even prodding further to ask &#8220;Why don&#8217;t you be ingenious &amp; make yourself into something else?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><em><strong>Pourquoi pas?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">So why not? Why not ask yourself such questions, materialistic, deep, or simply just for fun? And why not actually do them (if tangible, of course)?<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">Why Don&#8217;t You&#8230;<\/h3>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/lacouturiernyc.files.wordpress.com\/2008\/11\/why-dont-you1.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"538\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/why-dont-you\/why-dont-you1\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/11\/why-dont-you1.jpg?fit=444%2C800&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"444,800\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;11&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;Canon EOS-1Ds Mark III&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;1212635363&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;27&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;400&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0.003125&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"why-dont-you1\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/11\/why-dont-you1.jpg?fit=444%2C800&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-538\" title=\"why-dont-you1\" src=\"http:\/\/lacouturiernyc.files.wordpress.com\/2008\/11\/why-dont-you1.jpg?resize=444%2C800\" alt=\"why-dont-you1\" width=\"444\" height=\"800\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/11\/why-dont-you1.jpg?w=444&amp;ssl=1 444w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/11\/why-dont-you1.jpg?resize=167%2C300&amp;ssl=1 167w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 444px) 100vw, 444px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8230;splurge on that Louboutin boot you&#8217;ve been pining for?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8230;allocate your first paycheck toward a fund for that delicious, black Prorosus 35cm Birkin?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8230;call sick into work\/school, bring out the truffles &amp; chocolates, and indulge while watching a whole season of Gossip Girl or SATC?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8230;be a jetsetter &amp; go on that trip to Paris you&#8217;ve been dying to plan but claim &#8220;I don&#8217;t have the time&#8221;?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8230;set up a theme for each day of the week &amp; dress the part? Monday, Anna Wintour. Tuesday, Carine Roitfeld. Wednesday, Glamorous Hippie. Thursday, Agyness. Friday&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8230;throw a cocktail party?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8230;and your friends throw a masquerade? Masks are a must! Think <em>Marie Antoinette<\/em> meets <em>The Phantom of the Opera<\/em>&#8216;s masquerade scene.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8230;treat yourself to dinner in that fancy restaurant &amp; dress up for it!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8230;spend an entire weekend searching for that perfect dress\/pant\/shoe\/top you&#8217;ve always wanted?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8230;write a letter to your style icon? Or even better, try writing to an editor of a magazine &amp; see if they&#8217;ll reply?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8230;dig up the old boxes of vintage magazines &amp; reread them for inspiration?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8230;on your birthday, buy Marie-Antoinette worthy cakes &amp; make yourself the model of a birthday photoshoot?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8230;read a book in a foreign language? (I really want to read something in French&#8230;)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8230;be completely glamorous for a day, even if you&#8217;re just doing a little errand here &amp; there? Bring on the mysterious black sunglasses, the cocktail rings, the red lips, the heels, the &#8220;it&#8221; bag.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8230;indulge in luxurious truffles as you read a big book by the fireplace or on a couch?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8230;completely reorganize your closet? By color, season, brand, whatever you choose. Style your closet so it looks approachable &amp; like a boutique!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8230;carpe diem! Dye your hair a color you&#8217;ve always wanted (non\/semi-permanent might be best for this). Wear something you&#8217;d never wear on a normal occasion. Wear sequins, wear crazy eye-makeup, do anything and everything!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/lacouturiernyc.files.wordpress.com\/2008\/11\/serenas-room1.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"532\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/why-dont-you\/serenas-room1\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/11\/serenas-room1.jpg?fit=400%2C400&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"400,400\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"serenas-room1\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/11\/serenas-room1.jpg?fit=400%2C400&amp;ssl=1\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-532\" title=\"serenas-room1\" src=\"http:\/\/lacouturiernyc.files.wordpress.com\/2008\/11\/serenas-room1.jpg?w=300&#038;resize=270%2C270\" alt=\"serenas-room1\" width=\"270\" height=\"270\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/11\/serenas-room1.jpg?w=400&amp;ssl=1 400w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/11\/serenas-room1.jpg?resize=150%2C150&amp;ssl=1 150w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/11\/serenas-room1.jpg?resize=300%2C300&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 270px) 100vw, 270px\" \/><\/a>&#8230;pretend you&#8217;re a magazine editor for a day and make your own copy of <em>The Devil Wears Prada&#8217;s<\/em> &#8220;the Book&#8221;? Print out a cover, glue it to the front of a notebook, &amp; fill it with your own pictures &#8211; use it as your inspiration book! (Miss at la Playa has the details <a href=\"http:\/\/missatlaplaya.blogspot.com\/2007\/12\/el-libro-runway-el-diablo-viste-de.html\">here<\/a>!)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8230;buy a pretty parasol? Whether you use it or not for a stroll in the park is up to you!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8230;give your room a makeover! Model it after, say, Serena&#8217;s chambre in Gossip Girl!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Any other ideas? Leave it in the comments!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">xoxo,<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">La C.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Diana Vreeland, editor of Harper&#8217;s Bazaar and later the editor-in-chief of American Vogue, though as fabulous &amp; legendary as she was, had to begin\u00a0 modestly. 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