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“You don\u2019t owe prettiness to anyone. Not to your boyfriend\/spouse\/partner, not to your co-workers, especially not to random men on the street. You don\u2019t owe it to your mother, you don\u2019t owe it to your children, you don\u2019t owe it to civilization in general. Prettiness is not a rent you pay for occupying a space marked ‘female.'”<\/p>\n

\u2014Erin McKean,\u00a0You Don\u2019t Have to Be Pretty<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

. \u00a0 . \u00a0 .<\/p>\n

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“You don\u2019t owe prettiness to anyone. Not to your boyfriend\/spouse\/partner, not to your co-workers, especially not to random men on the street. You don\u2019t owe it to your mother, you don\u2019t owe it to your children, you don\u2019t owe it to civilization in general. 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