{"id":6685,"date":"2013-12-12T10:00:01","date_gmt":"2013-12-12T15:00:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/abitcoquettish.wordpress.com\/?p=6685"},"modified":"2015-08-28T22:37:13","modified_gmt":"2015-08-29T02:37:13","slug":"defining-style-on-having-a-uniform-part-ii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/defining-style-on-having-a-uniform-part-ii\/","title":{"rendered":"Defining Style: On Having a Uniform (Part II)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #888888;\"><em><a href=\"http:\/\/wp.me\/p6xDPX-1Js\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"color: #888888;\">Read Part I, on the importance of having a uniform<\/span><\/a>.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">. \u00a0 . \u00a0 .<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">There&#8217;s no doubt that I&#8217;m a perpetual purveyor of what&#8217;s traditionally defined as &#8220;classic;&#8221; it&#8217;s largely in part to my personal philosophy where I believe in the woman and not the clothes or products she uses (hence the emphasis on skincare and <a href=\"http:\/\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/?p=6051\" target=\"_blank\">au naturel beauty philosophy<\/a>). That said, however, those 10-100 (or whatever arbitrary\u2014read: marketable\u2014number) items gurus say everyone must own does not work for everyone. It shouldn&#8217;t, else it wouldn&#8217;t be style. What&#8217;s basic to me isn&#8217;t basic to another woman.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Here&#8217;s what&#8217;s prevalent in my wardrobe:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>The cheeky graphic tee<\/strong>. I love words. I love cheeky. Bam. Does that make me tacky? Probably, but semantics, babes. It\u2019s all in <i>how <\/i>you wear it.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>High-waisted pants<\/strong>. Skinny jeans, fit and flare denim, or wide leg trousers. Low-rise things neither fit my body type nor my lifestyle well, plus, they&#8217;re the bane of a relatively curvy and petite girl&#8217;s existence.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Ankle boots<\/strong>. I live in them all year long, and have since high school. This won&#8217;t be changing any time soon.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Over-the-knee black leather boots<\/strong>. Actually, in an ideal world, thigh-high boots would be a wardrobe stable, but alas I have yet to find one that&#8217;s within my price range\u00a0<em>and<\/em> fairly practical with my lifestyle (why buy things you can&#8217;t wear regularly? Unless it&#8217;s a party dress, I don&#8217;t believe in special occasions). Maybe when I&#8217;m in my mid-twenties, notably chicer, and\u00a0<em>not<\/em> running around from place to place the thigh-high suede boot will fall in my favor.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Leather jackets<\/strong>. The day I inherited my mother&#8217;s fitted, cropped leather number it was love at first sight. I&#8217;ve yet to find another that fits and looks the way it does (within my budget, that is), but I think it&#8217;s about time I bite the bullet and just invest in another. Or a few more, for good measure, since I&#8217;m rarely seen sans leather.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Matching lingerie sets<\/strong>. Unmentionables my derriere! I could launch into a whole diatribe about lingerie&#8217;s negative connotation in the public sphere, but I&#8217;ll resist. Lingerie isn&#8217;t for everyone, and I understand that it&#8217;s not something (nor a subject) that people readily accept. It&#8217;s important to me, it&#8217;s a part of my regimen, my dress, who I am. (I also like pretty, lacy things.)<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Body-con dresses<\/strong>. Again, someting I&#8217;ve been wearing for\u00a0<em>years<\/em>. They&#8217;re a classic staple in my evening wardrobe. Save for a well-tailored dress, bodycon and bandage dresses are what&#8217;s most flattering on my shape, and not to mention, comfortable too.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Jumpsuits<\/strong>. The right one can be so flattering. I found one particular design and fell in love\u2014and promptly hoarded it in a few more shades for evening rotations. I also not-so-secretly love that it&#8217;s something men don&#8217;t get, it satisfies the feminist in me.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Crop tops<\/strong>. They go with everything high-waisted. And by transitive theory (or was it the communatative property? It&#8217;s been a while since I touched basic mathematics), that means cropped tops go with\u00a0<em>everything<\/em> in my wardrobe.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Semi sheer blouses<\/strong>. You just can&#8217;t live without them. And by you, I mean <em>I<\/em>.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Off-the-shoulder tops &amp; sweaters<\/strong>. I am a shameless\u00a0<em>Flashdance<\/em>\u00a0babe at heart, that&#8217;s all.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>3\/4 sleeve sweaters<\/strong>. The idea of the sixties sweater girl was forever ingrained in my 15-year-old brain after some film I watched with my mother, and now I seek to be the millenial version of the classic sweetheart.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Fitted pencil skirts and dresses<\/strong>. If I&#8217;m not in a high-waisted-trouser-and-blouse combo, then you&#8217;ll find me swapping out my wide-leg bottoms for a fitted, more femme option. I love a super feminine, classic look; can you tell?<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Black leather handbag<\/strong>. I used to be a bag whore. It&#8217;s not to say that I&#8217;m a bag kinda girl\u2014I always will be\u2014it&#8217;s just that I&#8217;m not nearly as flighty as I once was. I&#8217;m faithful to one bag per season.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Asymmetrical skirt<\/strong>. Another evening staple of mine. The Helmut Lang helix skirts I originally lusted after disappeared before I could hoard one of each color for my wardrobe, so I, being the resourceful little Nancy Drew I am, hunted down approximates. They&#8217;re not Helmut (one day; I&#8217;m still lamenting), but they&#8217;re pretty \u00a0darn close, and therefore, pretty much perfect.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Strappy sandals<\/strong>. I have yet to find the perfect pump, so in the mean time, those strappy heels are filling the void all\u00a0<em>too<\/em> well. I love how delicate and elongating they are on the legs.<\/li>\n<li style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Nude, red, <a href=\"http:\/\/kimberlypearl.co\/blog\/?p=6100\" target=\"_blank\">dark purple<\/a> or burgundy nails<\/strong>. Confession: nail art has always driven me crazy. I like having a &#8220;signature&#8221; for everything\u2014signature drink, Starbucks order, meal, outfit, <em>etc<\/em>.\u2014so sticking to a color palette makes me happy.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">. \u00a0 . \u00a0 .<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>What are your style staples?<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\">xx<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Read Part I, on the importance of having a uniform. . \u00a0 . \u00a0 . There&#8217;s no doubt that I&#8217;m a perpetual purveyor of what&#8217;s traditionally defined as &#8220;classic;&#8221; it&#8217;s largely in part to my personal philosophy where I believe in the woman and not the clothes or products she uses (hence the emphasis on skincare and au naturel beauty philosophy). That said, however, those 10-100 (or whatever arbitrary\u2014read: marketable\u2014number) items gurus say everyone must own does not work for everyone. It shouldn&#8217;t, else it wouldn&#8217;t be style. What&#8217;s basic to me isn&#8217;t basic to another woman. Here&#8217;s what&#8217;s prevalent in my wardrobe: The cheeky graphic tee. I love words. I love cheeky. Bam. Does that make me tacky? Probably, but semantics, babes. It\u2019s all in how you wear it. High-waisted pants. Skinny jeans, fit and flare denim, or wide leg trousers. Low-rise things neither fit my body type nor my lifestyle well, plus, they&#8217;re the bane of a relatively curvy and petite girl&#8217;s existence. Ankle boots. I live in them all year long, and have since high school. This won&#8217;t be changing any time soon. Over-the-knee black leather boots. 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