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How to Wear: Cowboy Boots

19 September 2009 • Kimberly • Leave a Comment

Dear La Couturier,

First let me start off by saying that I am head over heels, completely in love with your blog! However, you probably already know that. I have always adored your posts where someone will request something, and you will give them little tips. You give fabulous advice, by the way. So I thought that I would ask you for some advice myself. I just recently bought the Frye ‘Jane 14’ Tall Pull-On Boot at Nordstrom. I already had a pair of biker boots, so I thought that I would opt for something different. Now most days I dress very classy, but some days I love to go for the grunge-chic look. With that, I have made many outfits with my new boots that don’t look too “cowgirl”, which is what I was going for. So, that said, I was wondering if you could give me some tips or outfit ideas so I could have your perspective on how to wear my new boots. I understand that you are very busy and probably get hundred of these requests, so I understand if you can’t help me.

Thank you for taking your time to read all of this! 🙂

– laur @ neonmango

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4th & Bleeker 2

{image source: 4 t h  a n d  b l e e k e r }

The cowboy boot has ventured into the shoe racks deemed trend-forward, creeping its way to a spot between much-adored and sought after biker boots. At what point the cowboy officially became popular once more lies in the gray area – but there is one thing that we do know without a doubt. They have made their comeback.

By no means does the aforementioned statement mean that this particular shoe is for everyone; depending on taste and personal style, your liking (or disliking) for the cowboy boot will differ. For most it is a love or hate situation; some adore the nostalgic reference to the southwestern culture of the United States; others look over it as (and I shall be rather blunt with this) tacky and irrelevant. I have neither extremities in feelings for this trend – I will, however, only admire it on others from afar.

But incorporating such a shoe is, by no means, easy. It so happens to be one of those pieces that either makes or breaks an outfit. An outfit “gone wrong” (again, this is all personal opinion) could result in an exact (borderline tacky) rendition of those historical ranchers. Yet when worn “right”, the effect is undoubtedly and undeniably chic.

The boots in question? The Frye “Jane 14” Tall Pull-On Boots. The perfect blend of the classic boot with a touch of western.

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{uptown & sophisticated.}

{ chickdowntown, net-a-porter, nordstrom }

    • Balance. Perhaps you tire of me being repetitive in my constant usage of the word in dishing my style advice, but I cannot emphasize enough the importance of it not just in creating ensembles, but also in life. The key to a successful and seemingly timeless ensemble – regardless of what current trends are incorporated into the look – is indeed balance. The typical cowboy boot nearly screams “LOOK AT ME!” in its unmistakably southern drawl. So tone it down with something sophisticated. The Rachel Pally batwing top is quite ideal: part ethereal and wholly sophisticated.

Dark skinny denim. The darker the wash, the dressier denim becomes. Tailored dark skinnies are the best choice of bottoms when wearing cowboy boots; they instantly add an element of sophistication.

  • Opulent gold. Again, I bring up my point of balance. Cowboys often evoke a casual-ness; add a bit of formality and (again) sophistication by juxtaposing that boot with gold jewelry. The more decadent, the better. Think Rachel Zoe and her armful of gold bangles and cocktail rings. Mm.

 

{ethereal romanticism & a tad western.}

Cowboy 2

{ chickdowntown, net-a-porter, forever 21, nordstrom }

  • Seek inspiration from Chloé. Most picture Southerners clad in plaid shirts, ripped denim, and a straw denim at the mention of cowboy boots. Yet I (again, the odd one out) picture previous collections by Chloé – ad campaigns inclusive. Grassy fields with models in ethereal, billowing linen tops, the Paraty slung on their shoulders. Take heed from the creative director(s) at this design house – and add that cowboy boot.
  • Think creams and neutrals for your color palette. It is simply the best way to balance (yet again) the ruddy red-brown of the [typical] cowboy boot. Variations of nudes, whites, and creams instantly soften the impact of the boot, adding a touch of feminism and dreaminess. Add light greys to add a bit of ground and solidity.

{ net-a-porter, nordstrom }

  • Layers. Again, with inspiration taken from Chloé. I imagine layers of linen blouses and knits with cable knit scarves that reach the knees. And a knit beret in an olive-y cream. Ensemble revelation? Perhaps.
  • High-waisted mini shorts. Paired with billowy tops, they add the perfect touch of sophistication and balance to knee high boots!
  • Mix & match. In any other circumstance I would say “Match! Match! Match!” But this occasion calls for a bit of flexibility; I do admire the mismatched pairings of different shades of browns for that perfectly imperfect Chloé look.

Cowboy 4

{ net-a-porter, nordstrom }

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bisous,

La C.

P.S.: This is ridiculously delayed, but sometime last week I had gotten a blog award from Cindy of True North Style in which she said “she deserves this just for introducing me to lollipop26, but on top of that she has an amazing blog!” Thank you so much for the blog award! (: It is imperative that all you lovelies visit her, she is absolutely amazing. I adore her & her blog!

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  1. janettaylor says

    19 September 2009 at 2:28 pm

    Such a great tips, doll! 🙂

    X♥X♥

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  2. thebaglady says

    19 September 2009 at 2:33 pm

    I’ll be honest and say that I hate cowboy boots.

    But LC, as soon as I read this post & saw these outfits I wanted a pair realll bad. So either you’re a ridiculously talented stylist or you’re a damn good stylist.

    Looooved this post!

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  3. diane says

    19 September 2009 at 2:34 pm

    I never would have thought of wearing a wrap cardigan with cowboy boots, but I love the way you pulled that look together. Here’s my dream:
    I’m rich and you do my shopping for me. Honestly, I would wear everything you suggested.

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  4. Kat says

    19 September 2009 at 3:12 pm

    Great post, girl! I like cowboy boots …they have the laid-back elegance of a wealthy ranchero!

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  5. The Frocker says

    19 September 2009 at 3:55 pm

    Wonderful post — you really have a talent for styling! 🙂

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  6. Lesley says

    19 September 2009 at 4:35 pm

    Another amazing post!!! I love your writing style and outfit tips!!! Amazing! 🙂

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  7. quelle says

    19 September 2009 at 5:01 pm

    awesome tips. any suggestions for pairing cowboy boots with skirts? would that be veering too far into “western” territory..?

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  8. LF says

    19 September 2009 at 5:39 pm

    Oo the first outfit is to die for!
    I love your how to wears, you create such great ensembles.

    x

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  9. Ramona says

    19 September 2009 at 5:57 pm

    Your post came at the right moment because i own such a pair and I think I would wear my cowboy boots a lot when the fall will seriously begin.You give us very good advice!You could be the best stylist girl!
    xoxo

    http://hisforhotcouture.blogspot.com/

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  10. S.Elisabeth says

    19 September 2009 at 6:38 pm

    Ah I love this, so perfect! Love the ideas, and what perfect ways to incorporate the cowboy boot!

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  11. Shannon says

    19 September 2009 at 6:43 pm

    This amazing guide makes me want a pair of cowboy boots… really bad.

    xx. Shannon

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  12. Gerri Ward says

    19 September 2009 at 7:46 pm

    OMG ! WATCH OUT ZOE YOU HAVE SERIOUS COMPETITION : La COUTURIER !!! These are AMAZINGLY FABULOUS OUTFITS, I want them ALL!:)
    bisous,
    Gerri

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  13. Wikifashion says

    19 September 2009 at 8:49 pm

    The dark chocolate frye boots are sooo beautiful paired with the blue jeans and neutral color scheme xo

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  14. mademoiselle chic says

    20 September 2009 at 12:07 am

    all these outfits are super cute! 🙂

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  15. Brigadeiro says

    20 September 2009 at 1:15 am

    LOVE cowboy boots! Although I haven’t found myself a pair yet…fat calves don’t help (doh!) 🙂
    xx

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  16. cindy says

    20 September 2009 at 2:01 am

    great advice. i will definitely work the cream neutral colour palette next time i wear my fryes.

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  17. Johanna - MyShoebox.se says

    20 September 2009 at 5:36 am

    Re: I can assure you, it was delicious 😉

    Lovely outfits you put together, I especially like the first one 🙂

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  18. decadentluxe says

    20 September 2009 at 5:43 am

    I love your last set.

    I’m currently holding an LNA zipper legging giveaway if you’re interested!

    http://decadentluxe.com/2009/09/18/lna-zipper-legging-giveaway/

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  19. Choo says

    20 September 2009 at 6:15 am

    Beautyful looks

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  20. ediot says

    20 September 2009 at 7:00 am

    great post dear. i love the frye boots. really want a pair now.theyre just such perfect autumnboots

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  21. Tamara says

    20 September 2009 at 7:40 am

    Love the boots in the first pic you posted! Like cowboy ankle boots, amazing 🙂
    xo

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  22. Iris says

    20 September 2009 at 8:45 am

    I think you’ve got a very good eye for styling, but I’m just not such a big fan of cowboy boots.

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  23. PinkBow says

    20 September 2009 at 9:37 am

    another great post, she has fantastic style too!

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  24. Keith says

    20 September 2009 at 9:42 am

    Hey there. Great post. I hope you’ve been having a wonderful weekend. Take care. Cheers!

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  25. Modediktat says

    20 September 2009 at 10:26 am

    Hey La Couturier 🙂
    long time no see… I was off due to a long and strong cold – latest posting: interview with the lovely Dakota Rico – come and check it out 🙂 He did an amazing drawing of you!

    Cowboy boots…. Love them but find it not very easy to find a good pair which doesn’t look trying too hard 😉

    You’ve picked out some very amazing items – and the collages are just awesome!
    My favorite is the first Chloé collage!

    Enjoy the Sunday, darling!

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  26. Rachelle says

    20 September 2009 at 2:08 pm

    really awesome outfits you put together! thanks for the great tips 🙂

    ♡ R

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  27. qin says

    20 September 2009 at 4:16 pm

    Awesome tips! Love love love your blog! ^^

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  28. rossovelvet says

    20 September 2009 at 4:29 pm

    Your tips are awesome ! But I guess you won’t like my cowboy boots because these don’t seem cowboy at all to me xD…….. but I’ve been so in love with mine for years now ( even if my first pair has broken and I had to rebuy it this summer ), they’re so versatile !

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  29. jaime says

    20 September 2009 at 6:28 pm

    Love cowboy boots and love the looks you created! 🙂

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  30. freeteyme says

    20 September 2009 at 10:22 pm

    great ensemble La C! love the first set!

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  31. maja says

    21 September 2009 at 5:12 am

    i love your combinations 🙂 very classy

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  32. geisharock says

    21 September 2009 at 5:15 am

    what a great post!!! I have some cowboy boots that I’m going to be digging out for winter and I will definitely be using some of your outfit combinations 🙂 xoxo

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  33. Taru says

    21 September 2009 at 10:21 am

    that ring is so beautiful. need that one

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  34. Cafe Fashionista says

    21 September 2009 at 11:35 am

    Each of these looks is beyond fabulous! 🙂

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  35. lisa says

    21 September 2009 at 1:20 pm

    Great advice as always, La C! You put together some truly sophisticated outfits around a pair of boots and made the cowboy chic vibe of the boots much more urban.

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  36. Liv says

    21 September 2009 at 6:48 pm

    thx for this post – i always loved cowboy boots (being an equestrian and all of course) but shied away b/c of the tack-factor. i like how you paired it with soft and pretty/neutral shades.

    About dance: do you still dance? i used to dance ballet (age 3-9) and always regretted the day i stopped. Like you, i was forced to stop b/c my mom had a misconception that girls must stop ballet during the ages 9-12 as it was bad for their development. I just loved the way you describe how a primi ballerina might look leaving the studio or rehearsal…it’s so romantic and feminine. What i loved about dance was the freedom in expression, the music, and the team work. Above all, i loved the performance – i loved being on stage.

    so much so i am thinking about going back and taking some intro to modern dance…maybe one of these days…

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  37. roxanne says

    21 September 2009 at 7:54 pm

    love this, and it’s so timely too – my friends and i are planning a southwest road trip and i’ve been contemplating the boots, but was sure it was too incongruent with my look.. great post!

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  38. Kristin says

    21 September 2009 at 8:07 pm

    OMG, that Chloe bag is most delicious!

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  39. An says

    22 September 2009 at 12:23 am

    I looooove those last two outfits~ and I really want to purchase myself some cute cowboy boots….but I have to find some nice silver pumps first..gah…

    E> An

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  40. Ash Fox says

    22 September 2009 at 11:48 am

    i love fourth and bleeker. she looks good in anything! great suggestions on how to wear cowboy boots. i love the all of the slouchy tops and nude accents.

    x

    http://www.tittees.blogspot.com

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  41. Laur says

    22 September 2009 at 4:23 pm

    First off, thank you ever so much! I LOVED the post! Fabulous advice, as always. I adore the idea of mixing the nudes, and the whole Chloe look. I also loved the first ensemble. Definitely cowgirl chic. This makes me want to rip out my boots and wear them right now 😀

    Thanks again!!! 🙂

    – laur @ neonmango

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  42. Dana says

    23 September 2009 at 7:55 am

    Nice outfits! I have a pair myself and I almost never wear them. Thanks for the advise!!

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  43. Bored and Crafty says

    23 September 2009 at 4:44 pm

    Here I am wishing that I do no live in a tropical country and can wear boots all the time. I have only one pair of cowboy boots and I never wear them so fashionably like you suggested here because I know people will look at me like I’m crazy.

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  44. Pretty Portobello says

    23 September 2009 at 6:53 pm

    Great post! I love the looks you have selected.

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  45. glaykidarling says

    25 September 2009 at 4:41 am

    thanks for your advices
    http://glaykisdolcevita.wordpress.com/

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